tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5863670796469985932024-03-13T14:02:46.736-07:00Lullabies Across the SeaOur Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16566748731184222334noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-586367079646998593.post-11872232194456299072013-10-01T19:16:00.004-07:002013-10-01T19:58:17.877-07:00A Reason to Celebrate...<div><br></div><div><br></div><div><br></div>
Sevi is home!<div><br><div>We were in country for two weeks. My husband was with us for the first week, then returned home while Gabby, Sevi and I got to know each other better and the people and culture of the DR Congo. Everything went smoothly and we had great support from both our agency's staff and in-country representatives. Two great children have been added to our home this past year. We are so thrilled to have the privilege to parent these kids and be connected to a country we once knew so little about, that now has a permanent place in our hearts. <br><div>
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Stay tuned!<div><br><div>Here's a few snap shots to hold you over:</div><div><br></div><div><br><div><br></div></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-D3XxoX01OLk/UhZV5BQy8uI/AAAAAAAABV8/mVDC5j1AD8o/s640/blogger-image--763738082.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-D3XxoX01OLk/UhZV5BQy8uI/AAAAAAAABV8/mVDC5j1AD8o/s640/blogger-image--763738082.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-QHuMC7uM4P4/UhZV3ubD8wI/AAAAAAAABV0/6Afyj4WyrK0/s640/blogger-image--1818668620.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-QHuMC7uM4P4/UhZV3ubD8wI/AAAAAAAABV0/6Afyj4WyrK0/s640/blogger-image--1818668620.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><br><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-b6CGsMMWWak/UhZV1-PD5kI/AAAAAAAABVs/b6ZGMPsRQJ8/s640/blogger-image-918841004.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-b6CGsMMWWak/UhZV1-PD5kI/AAAAAAAABVs/b6ZGMPsRQJ8/s640/blogger-image-918841004.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Will be back soon to fill you all in,</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">Beth</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div>Our Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16566748731184222334noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-586367079646998593.post-91521815403941312722013-05-25T09:46:00.001-07:002013-05-25T10:06:04.938-07:00Getting Comfortable with Being Me and My BeliefsYou're probably wondering what the title of this blog post has to do with adoption. Stick with me for a few minutes and I'll try to explain.<div><br></div><div>Even though Im forty six and come off as " got it all together", strong, and confident, fact is... I'm not. I second guess myself often because I want to do what's right, say what's right and I'm very aware I don't know always know what that is by simply looking back over my forty plus years and seeing the evidence of my ignorance.</div><div><br></div><div>So I hedge and I run more than I stand and fight to live and teach what I believe out of fear of being ostracized and out of fear of being wrong. Now here is where I'm going to tie in this odd post with adoption: I have strong feelings about adoption. And I have found that adoption is not embraced by lots of people who can be pretty cutthroat and certain they are right and I am wrong for brining someone else's child into my home. Their reasons are vast, and since I have done two adoptions back to back I have seen and witnessed those who object and even those who say they are for adoption but actions say otherwise.</div><div><br></div><div>It sent me into a tailwind of emotions and thoughts. And as I've gone inward and outward sorting this all out for myself I've come to the conclusion that I live and speak MY convictions and beliefs and should exercise the freedom to do so without concern over offending someone because there are those who offend me and those whose lives and beliefs are different than my own and no one is going to adapt their belief and life system for me so why not live my life out according to my own convictions and beliefs without the need to apologize or be ashamed for thinking and living different than they.</div><div><br></div><div>Ah, this post is doing me more good than you probably right? That's ok... I'm good with that;)</div><div><br></div><div>So here's the bottom line... I have lots to say, about lots of things. I have felt like I've been on the spin cycle in the wash machine since international adoption has been a decision we as a family made over a year ago, and praise God, He pushed the stop button and told me to get over myself and my inhibitions and give the message He's given me to give. And if I'm wrong He will be sure to point it out and I will be quick to say... I was wrong. And I will apologize and admit my mistakes to anyone who may still be lurking listeners;) </div><div><br></div><div>So here's something's you should know about me straight up:</div><div><br></div><div>I'm a Christian. The kind that believes that Jesus was sent to pardon me from my sin so that I can have peace with God and be able to enjoy Him and His presence forever. </div><div><br></div><div>I'm the kind of Christian who believes that the Bible is the inspired, infallible, written Word of God and is the blueprint for every believer to know how to live as our creator intended for us to live in order that He receives all the glory and receives a faithful testament to Himself through our obedience.</div><div><br></div><div>I believe adoption is and was purposed as a means to be a defender of the fatherless. " Defend the poor and fatherless; maintain the right of the afflicted and destitute. Psalms 82:3".</div><div><br></div><div>This is the definition of defend:</div><div><br></div><div>To drive danger or attack away. To maintain or support in the face of argument or hostile criticism. </div><div>Synonyms: protect, shield, guard, safeguard.</div><div><br></div><div>I believe that Jesus wants the little children to be able to come unto Him, " But Jesus said, " Let the little children alone, and do not hinder them from coming to me; for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.</div><div>I believe parents are the best option for children to be ushered to the knees of Jesus.</div><div><br></div><div>I believe adoption is a God created plan as a substitute/bridge for those who without it would be left to die without a family and the blessings meant to be provided through it. </div><div><br></div><div>I believe everyone who calls themselves a follower of Christ is commanded to either care for or help others care for the widows and orphans.</div><div><br></div><div>I believe Satan hates families, and works overtime in the preventing of families being created and destroyed because families are Gods plan to bear witness of Himself and His purpose of mankind. </div><div><br></div><div>How's this for a start in what I believe? </div><div><br></div><div>So be forewarned: </div><div>this blog is going to be used to shout from the rooftops what I believe about adoption, and family in general, and I will make no apologies for my beliefs and I will ask none from you for yours.</div><div><br></div><div>Now lets hug and get on with our Saturday,</div><div><br></div><div>Beth</div><div><br></div><div><br></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-MKq-Lq6GqOc/UaDveq93BVI/AAAAAAAABVM/NefUHuQuTGw/s640/blogger-image--284925212.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-MKq-Lq6GqOc/UaDveq93BVI/AAAAAAAABVM/NefUHuQuTGw/s640/blogger-image--284925212.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br></div><div class="separator" style="text-align: -webkit-auto;clear: both; "><span style="text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">You, LORD, hear the desire of the afflicted; you encourage them, and you listen to their cry,</span></div><div class="separator" style="text-align: -webkit-auto;clear: both; "><span style="text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">defending the fatherless and the oppressed, so that mere earthly mortals will never again strike terror.</span></div><div class="separator" style="text-align: -webkit-auto;clear: both; "><span style="text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><br></span></div><div class="separator" style="text-align: -webkit-auto;clear: both; "><span style="text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Psalms 82: 17-18</span></div>Our Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16566748731184222334noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-586367079646998593.post-89509336313774014692013-05-03T13:24:00.002-07:002013-05-03T13:24:36.188-07:00News and Upcoming Events...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I want to announce we are officially and legally Sevi's family! We have passed court and are just days away from being able to file with USCIS for her to immigrate to the United States. We are in the last leg of this journey. It's the place where you're ready to just quit all the fundraising, all the paperwork and just go get your child and be <span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;"><em><strong>Family.</strong></em></span></div>
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But unfortunately we still have work to do. Both in fundraising and in filing and W.A.I.T.I.N.G. </div>
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Those of you who are currently in the middle of a DRC adoption know there has been delay after delay. We thought her process would go so much quicker than Maida's but due to changes that are being implemented we do not know now. But what we do know is she is coming home and we are preparing for her!</div>
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A little over a week ago a friend of mine who works in-country was able to go and visit Sevi for us! This is a picture of he and Sev:</div>
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He had nothing but good things to say about her which pleased this mama's heart a great deal. It's one thing to think your child unique and special, that's pretty normal, but for someone else to see the amazing qualities she possesses just made my heart go pitter patter; and more than once I've asked God why we are so fortunate to be able to call her daughter.</div>
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We have several fundraiser events in the works but the first big one will be on June 7 & 8th. It is a:</div>
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If you happen to live close to us and have some things that are gently used that you would like to donate just contact us and we will come and pick them up from you!</div>
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We are still selling Candy Bars! You can order a box for $100. (Turn around and resale them and you've lost nothing!), Half a box, or even one or two at a time! We sell individual bars for $2 each. Also we have gotten back to making our African Paper Bead necklaces and bracelets. They are so pretty and they look fantastic when you wear more than one. We have lowered the prices to $15 for necklaces and $10 for bracelets. They are very labor intensive as we make each paper bead ourselves, so they are truly a hand crafted, unique item. Just email us at <a href="mailto:lullabiesacrossthesea@yahoo.com">lullabiesacrossthesea@yahoo.com</a> to order!</div>
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Bella and Tia are modeling the jewelry:</div>
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Please pray that our fundraisers will be successful and Sevi's paperwork will be pushed through in a timely manner so she can join her family! It's been almost six months since we were together and I am missing her a great deal and my friend who visited her said it is very difficult for her to believe we are coming back for her as that hope is just too big for her. I can't wait for her to see us walk through those gates at her orphanage again so she knows we meant it when we said we would be back and taking her home.</div>
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<br />Our Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16566748731184222334noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-586367079646998593.post-27219993061933687522013-04-21T23:06:00.001-07:002013-04-21T23:06:45.799-07:00The Final Count for Give1Save1It's an hour before midnight and a few trickles of donations are still coming in. We just wanted to say thank you to everyone who has helped us raise money for Sevi's adoption. A little over $800 was raised:)<br />
Thank you!Our Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16566748731184222334noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-586367079646998593.post-75833633999553358462013-04-20T09:04:00.000-07:002013-04-20T09:04:50.027-07:00Only two days left!<div>
<span class="userContent">We only have TWO DAYS LEFT in our Give1 Save1 fundraiser! Our goal is to raise $1,250 more in these last two days to reach $2,000. We need all of your help to get there, please share share share with everyone you know! Here is the link again: <span class="userContent"><span class="userContent"><a href="http://tinyurl.com/sevikat" rel="nofollow nofollow" target="_blank">http://tinyurl.com/sevikat</a></span></span></span><br />
<span class="userContent"> We have been so blessed by all the friends and family who have already stepped forward and helped and supported us. Thank you and please keep praying for us and our Sevi girl :)</span></div>
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Our Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16566748731184222334noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-586367079646998593.post-3179585954318704132013-04-17T09:57:00.001-07:002013-04-17T10:07:17.264-07:00Our Family Book Reached Sevi... Take a Look!I hope you find this as big of a treat as we did. This is Sevi recieving her family book. A family book is a book adoptive families can create through photo company's like Shutterfly. The books are a way to introduce the waiting children to their new families and homes. Adoptive families network with other adoptive parents who are traveling in order to get these books and care packages to their children. We are so grateful for those who traveled and helped get things to Maida when she was still there and now Sevi.<br />
Since my daughter and myself was able to meet Sevi when we were in the Congo last November we were able to add photo's that included us with her. That was exciting for her, along with the nannies from the orphanage getting to see pictures of Maida with her new family! Just click on the link below and enjoy!<br />
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And remember this week we are the featured family at Give1Save1. You, our readers can help us bring Sevi home by sharing this link with everyone you know. Please join efforts with us!<br />
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"We witness a miracle every time a child enters into life.<br />
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Just got word our family's adoption story is being featured NOW! whoot whoot!! on Give1Save1's blog. What is Give1Save1?<br />
An adoption blog that helps adoptive families raise funds for their adoption so that families can go get their kids. Is that not awesome??<br />
It is a wonderful opportunity for us to raise the needed funds to bring Sevi home. The motto of Give1save1 is give $1 to save 1 life. Can you give more than a dollar? ABSOLUTELY! But don't underestimate what $1 can do! Besides donating towards our adoption at this blog we need you, our readers to promote promote promote our family this week. Share the link with your facebook friends, send out the link to those family members and friends who aren't facebook users through email.<br />
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It's been five months since we met Sevi. Five months since we met her sweet spirited self and I'm missing her and ready for her to come home. <br />
This adoption is very different than when we went through the process for Maida. With Maida we had no first hand knowledge of the DRC other than what we read. We knew nothing of the child we said yes to, and had very little understanding of how the paperwork was done that would make her our own, or the importance of specific documents that enables two countries goverments to agree in letting us bring her home.<br />
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With Sevi we know her, we met her and spent two weeks with her when we traveled to pick up Maida in November. <br />
We experienced the beauty and the tragedy of the DR Congo. We saw first hand the tragic reality for so many children who contract malaria, when children have no one in their life who can afford a few dollars to buy medicine that would spare their life.<br />
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We now know exactly what documents are needed, and what those documents will mean in making us family. It happened so much faster with Maida, and it seems to be taking so long with Sevi. Last time around I thought if I just knew what to expect and the time frame to expect it in, it would help ease some of the adoption anxiety. But let me tell you... It's done the opposite! <br />
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I find myself tapping my foot, drumming my fingers and shooting off emails to my agency to enquire about our documents. I want to reach across the ocean and see to it that MY child's paperwork is being noticed in the stacks of documents that are being handled in the courts of Kinshasa.<br />
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Doesn't Sevi deserve to come home? Hasn't she been in that orphanage long enough? Isn't it time for her to learn what family is and who God is and how much she is loved? My answer is yes. And I'm sure you agree with me; but like our last adoption I have to be reminded whose child Sevi really is. Gods. He has just given us the blessing of raising her. He is using us-Mom, Dad, brother and many sisters, to know what love is. What grace is. To know what family is and what commitment is. <br />
Personally I'd like to get on with all this family love fest for Sevi in person. But like with Maida, God reminds me that He is still working in the waiting. Our waiting, and persevering is already teaching Sevi about commitment as we wait on her and climb mountains for her. She is already beginning to experience love and trust as we follow through in bringing her home like we said we would that last day we said our goodbyes in the Congo five months ago. <br />
She is a smart girl, a very smart girl. And I know she will know one thing about this family before ever coming home: We want her and love her. <br />
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<br />Our Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16566748731184222334noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-586367079646998593.post-83371148125973708292013-03-14T10:42:00.000-07:002013-03-14T10:45:15.250-07:00Experience DRC CongoThis is the best video footage we have seen that shows life in the Congo and the children there. <br />
If you're in the process of adopting from the DRC and wanting to know what it will be like when you go... this is a good visual description, but it certainly doesn't consist of everything you will likely encounter.<br />
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You will find kind people, and people who are less than friendly, but study your history of this country and you will know why. You cannot view this country with an american lens... if you do you'll be nothing but shocked, confused and overwhelmed. If you look for the beauty in any place you will find it. And there is a lot of beauty in Congo. It is a stark contrast to the ugly... but it's there. Look for it.</div>
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We have kicked off our Helen Grace candy bar drive today! We are looking for 150 businesses, churches and organizations to pull their team members together and help us bring Sevi home by buying a box of candy bars! (Families are welcome too!) Each box is $100.<br />
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Several days ago I thought seriously about going into hiding as an adoptive parent. To protect myself, my children and family from all the intentional evil that exists from naysayers of international adoption. There is also those who hurt unintentionally with their lack of knowledge and understanding, and then there are the willfully ignorant. They are indifferent to truth on any subject but particularly when it regards self. They have an opinion based upon nothing. No facts or evidence. The Bible calls it being right in their own eyes. A fool.<br />
After I got over being afraid I got mad, and now Im somewhere in the middle. But through it I realized how much I care about the children who need a Father and Mother, an advocate.<br />
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The fact is MOST people don't care about Orphans. <br />
The definition of orphan is not: mother and father is deceased. The definition of orphan is: "a child who is bereaved of father, mother or both". (Websters1828 Dictionary)<br />
Bereaved means deprived, stripped and left. Whether one or both parents die or whether a child is relinquished due to poverty or neglect the end result is the same: a child is without a family. <br />
Without a father or mother, without an advocate. <br />
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It is a PARENTS duty to advocate for their child in what ever needs that child has. So children without parents are vulnerable to sickness, disease, abuse and poverty. So what do these children need more than anything? Parents. Not political reformation. <br />
Children don't need government, they need the rules and boundaries of a safe and loving home. The leaders a child needs to look to is mom and dad. Of course political stability is a factor in the success of a family and community but a child doesn't have time for grown ups who aren't their parents to figure out and fight over what should be done about them. Parents know what is best for their child. Not a country. Not ANY country. <br />
So what does every child on any continent need more than anything? Parents. <br />
If I go flatline because of what people might say about me and my children I am not ushering forth the truth, i am suppressing the truth. Opposition of right is always trying to silence and oppress. And what is the consequence of that? In this case, millions of children wasting away with no identity, family or purpose or hope.<br />
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This recent battle of wills against a naysayer brought out the tiger mom in me in full armour. A tigress.<br />
I love being a mom. And I will do what I do best: love my children and advocate for them in order that they will will be able to live their lives to the fullest according to their convictions and gifts and talents. And my roar for my children has just gotten bigger for not only my own but for all the millions of children who have no home, no family no advocate. My advocacy for these kids is for them to have a family. I will not be silent.<br />
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Yes, whole families when and where possible need to be strengthened in order that families can stay together. I know this personally as a single mom of five for almost eleven years. I have supported and will continue to support single mothers in their success in raising their children. I have done that in very practical ways, and I will do more, as Im sure other individuals and groups will do. But in the mean time, simultaneously, without delay... There are children in desperate urgent need of a family. And my voice will be used to bring children home to mom and dad where they can be safe and cared for, and raised with a hope and a purpose.<br />
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Our Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16566748731184222334noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-586367079646998593.post-7822444870892932652013-02-09T02:55:00.000-08:002013-02-09T08:54:23.851-08:00An Update of Our Two DaughtersWe have a total of 296 kisses for Sevi! Thank you everyone, and keep those kisses coming! Next Thursday is Valentines Day. Our goal is 1000!<br />
To buy a kiss for Sevi just click on the donate button on the right side bar. They are only$1! One dollar will help to bring this young girl home... don't underestimate what a dollar can do. It can do a lot when many will step forward with just one!:)<br />
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I know many of you would like to hear more about our time in country and Maida's adjustments (and ours!). So I'm going to do everything backwards and tell you a bit about the transitions,where we're at today in our attatchments/bondings; Maida's health and develoment, then hopefully sooner than later get back to our time in Congo as I haven't even scratched the surface of all that we saw and experienced while there. </div>
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This is Maida today:)</div>
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Yes, she kind of looks like a boy here, but we still can't do much with her hair and we are all tired of headbands lol. Notice the pink crocs and the hearts on her shirt:) She is very much girl!</div>
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We have been very very blessed at her willingness and ability to attatch and bond with us. To be quite honest in regards to attatching I think it has been easier for her than for us! It has taken running through the gauntlet so to speak, and getting through to the other side to realize how much we love her and enjoy her. It took getting to know her to truly appreciate her. And it took her time to get to know us. The results: we think she's pretty fabulous, and she thinks we're pretty fabulous and we find it amazing how well we became family when only eleven weeks ago we were complete strangers to one another. A friend shared this passage of scripture with me tonight and it perfectly sums it up:</div>
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When we chose to adopt, we made a decision to love a child we never met. Everyday it's a choice and an obligation. Not a feeling. Feelings can't always be trusted to lead you to do what you ought not to do, or what you ought to do. </div>
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There were days when I wondered what the heck I had done. I mean who falls in love with a 2 1/2 year old:?! Usually your love for a child begins in its infant stages. When they are sweet and innocent.You then have two years to make your love and devotion rock solid so when they turn two and beyond you have the fortitude (lovingly) to face the battle of wills you may encounter for the next many years!</div>
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I thought I knew me. But then I saw a side of myself I didn't know existed. But God knew;) and what another perfect opportunity (<em>like so many in the adoption journey!)</em> for God to show me how desperately I need to be changed when compared to a perfect and holy God.</div>
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An opportunity for Him to say <em>"Hey, you. You need me. Your faith needs to grow, it's weak. You don't trust Me.You depend way to much on yourself and not nearly enough on Me".</em> </div>
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So you're wondering... was she that bad? Ha! No, I am. I'm bad in the sense that I thought I would never have difficulty in loving someone elses child. I never thought that I had trust issues with God until through this I realized I trusted Him second. Not first. See when I'm out of answers I go to God. I shouldn't be going to God when <em>I</em> can't come up with my own solutions; I go to Him for the solutions. From the get go. And it took a lot of face falling into mud to realize... I'm not so smart. Don't bother going to self first. Go to God first. <em>Only</em> go to God, leave self completely out of it.</div>
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Just quiet, lethal, jugular, <em>I'll show you</em> moments in which not a word is spoken (Which is the total opposite of her happy side. Her happy side, which is almost<em> all the time,</em> is non stop, barely takes a breath chatter, All. Day. Long. and is completely amiable)! We determined the only thing that she owned before coming home was her will. And she wasn't going to give it up. At least not without a fight.</div>
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It was very intense in Congo at times because I felt I had my hands tied. You see we were there with our in country co ordinator from our agency, which is like driving with a police officer in you car lol. (Can you say <em>paranoid</em>?)! So I couldn't wait to get home in familiar surrounding to assert myself as the one in charge. </div>
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My asserting sure didn't get us very far. The more assertive I was, the harder she'd get and the more frustrated I'd become. Then the light bulb went off or rather... God hitting me over the head, saying, " <em>GRACE. GRACE. GRACE. She's this way because she's had to be, show her she doesn't have to be this way anymore". "</em> You want me to show grace to this 23lb little<strike> imp</strike> child who can win in almost any situation because she doens't care about consequences, Grace"? "<em>Yeah".</em></div>
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We are launching a Valentine Fundraiser. "A Thousand Kisses for Sevi"!<br />
Our goal is to sell 1,000 chocolate kisses for Sevi by Valentines Day. <br />
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<span class="text_exposed_show">A KISS IS ONLY $1!<br /> <br /> WE HAVE EIGHT DAYS... Will YOU be Sevi's Valentine?<br /> <br /> Click on the Donate button at the top of the page. If you would like to send a dollar through regular mail send me an e-mail at <a href="mailto:Lullabiesacrossthesea@yahoo.com">Lullabiesacrossthesea@yahoo.com</a> for our address.<br /> Please share with all your friends to help give "A Thousand Kisses for Sevi" this Valentines Day!<br /> Thank you!</span></div>
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Since we were in country for two weeks we had lots of opportunity to spend time at the orphanage Maida was from. My daughter Gabby was allowed to tag along with Mama J almost everytime she went to tend to the children and staff at the orphanage. It was an amaznig opportunity for a young girl of seventeen who has the hopes of one day ministering in Northern China to the North Korean orphans who are stateless children there.<br />
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She loved the kids, and they loved her. She studied and learned a great deal of Lingala before we left and picked up a great deal more while in country. Her time with Mama J was very special to her and she hopes to do it again.<br />
Those days were priceless for the both of us. Stronger than just mother daughter bonds we share a deep love for our Creator and the orphans he has intrusted us believers to care for. As a little girl I had dreams of traveling to Africa to spend time loving on the least of these. I had the same dream for China. My daughter Gabriella was able to walk along with me in my journey to Africa. A dream realized. And I know one day, I will walk alongside <em>her </em>as she realizes her own dream that God gave her of loving the least of these in Northern China. That my friends is a sweetness no hallmark card could ever convey. <br />
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Gods plans are always bigger than our own, and He begins the process long before we ever know it or ever have any say or way to foil it:) Thank goodness for that!<br />
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<i>Getting to know you... getting to know all about you....</i>goes the song from the King and I.<br />
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Well that would be a good way to describe the following day after the exciting and exhausting first day!<br />
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On gotcha day Maida was very quiet and subdued. Not until dinner that evening when she was reunited with several of her friends and their new families did she speak. Not to us of course:/ but boy did the kids talk among themselves! We picked up early on that their main relationships was with one another. They looked to one another for comfort, for advocacy and leadership. They trusted one another. They were willing to listen to one another. Even to submit. But those same rules didn't apply to me lol. Or the parents of the other children who were going home while we were there. We knew early on that it was going to take time for them to trust us.<br />
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This photo is not of Maida being distraught over being with me, the complete stranger. No.... she was distraught because I took my phone away from her after letting her play with it for some time. She did not like me telling her what to do!<br />
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There was no temper tantrums, or crying... just a really really cold shoulder... for a really really long time;)<br />
After a while I sensed something else might be up. She looked very tense and anxious. I studied her for a few minutes and quizzically asked her a couple of times what was wrong, and then my mommy instincts kicked in and I asked... SUBA? (pee in lingala) She nodded her head emphatically so I rushed her into the bathroom and relief came to the both of us!<br />
When we picked her up at the orphanage I asked the nannies about her being potty trained and they told me no she wasn't at all. So what a pleasant surprise! She was completely potty trained with the exception of night time.<br />
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For the record, this is how she is... One minute in the depths of despair with pain of disappointment all over her face then back to her million dollar smile. Back and forth she goes. She fits into our house of women very well!<br />
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We spent the morning getting acquainted then left to go to a local market within walking distance. She needed shoes. And even tho I brought her three different sizes from the states, her feet were so skinny none of them fit. So we looked to Congo to provide her with shoes and shoes we found!<br />
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While walking to the market we came across a known and loved street kid of Mama J's, (our in-country coordinator who was there with us the whole time we were in Congo). She had him come along with us so she could catch up with him and see how he was doing and eat lunch with us. Gabby gave him some gum which he thought was way cool and Mama J took him to buy a soccer ball afterwards.<br />
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An interesting tidbit: I planned on not eating while in Congo. I am very picky about what I put in my stomach and since I was in Congo with my newly adopted daughter and my older daughter from home I felt I couldn't afford to get sick. But peer pressure swayed me to not be the bump on the log and join all the other families who were there, in going out to eat. I am so glad I did! My daughter and I enjoyed the food there so much. From pizza, to chicken and rice, to pilli pilli sauce mixed with mayo and ketchup to dip our fries in; It was all sooooo good. And I didn't get sick once! But I have my theories on that. I think it had to do with my strict diet regemine of probiotics, cod liver oil, and super green food by Garden of Life and no sugar consumption for about six weeks prior to leaving. I didn't even get one mosquito bite while I was there... for TWO WEEKS!<br />
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So I should probably clue you in on a few things you might be interested in if you're in the process of adopting from the DRC:<br />
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I didn't get every shot under the sun before we left. I'm very conservative in the use of vaccinations. My daughter and I received the mandatory yellow fever shot and a tetanus shot. That was it. We also got a prescription for a general antibiotic which we never used, and malarone which we took faithfully.<br />
We also took along lice shampoo, elimite for scabies, ringworm medicine, and general pharmaceuticals in the event of diarrhea, cold, allergies ect. We ended up using the ring worm medicine after getting home:/ It was no biggie really. I had imagined much worse lol.<br />
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Maida had a fungal infection on her head which we treated while in Congo. It's like ringworm and many of the kids had it. The remedy is to shave their heads and apply a topical ointment in conjection to taking an oral anti-fungal. Good news is her hair is growing back and all fungal infections are gone!<br />
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Her head was shaved by a young man who works at St. Annes. He took her out back of the convent with a bar of soap and straight edge. He spoke to her very sweetly in lingala before starting. Asking her how she was and then reassuring her not to worry and not to move. She never flinched.<br />
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I know I am way over due in sharing how we finally got to little Maida. I am very sorry.! It has been, well.... Busy lol!<br />
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No matter how "prepared" I thought I was both practically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually prior to leaving when it came down to departure day we were scurrying for last minute things to pack, adding items to our donation tubs,and dealing with a host of emotions. I think the best way to clue you, the reader, in on all of that; is through pictures:)<br />
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We took only one check-in suitcase between the two of us. It was filled with mostly food and toys for Maida to play with while at St. Annes. We took jerky, Lara bars, dried soup cups, sardines for Maida (who loved them!), nuts ect. The plastic rubbermaid tubs were our other allowed checked in luggage. They were filled with donations of school supplies, formula, baby cereal, clothing and some toys. We each carried on two carry on bags. We had everything we would need in them for the most part in case something happened to our suitcase. I'm a mom. You plan for the what if's! We flew out of Los Angeles into Dulles Airport. Onto Brussels, then into Angola for a refuel, then back up to Kinshasa. We left LAX early morning on October 31st and arrived in Kinshasa about 9:45pm November 1st. <br />
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My Traveling Companion! Gabriella. She is my fourth child, third daughter. Her heart is for the orphan and hopes to minister to North Korean orphans along the northern Chinese border someday. We shall see... a part of her heart is now in Congo:) </div>
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She learned a lot of lingala before we left and picked up a great deal while in country. She has a gift of language that I am sure God is going to use someday. It certainly was used in-country and has been a great help since being home in communicating with Ida.</div>
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Saying good by to my husband. I was homesick before I left and had many weepy day prior to leaving. We had decided to use our agencys in-country co-ordinator as a family escort. For several reasons; mainly she was familiar with the country, the contacts in country, and the country itself. That proved to be a very wise decision! We met up with her and two other families at the Dulles airport and traveled together the rest of the way. It was great getting to know everyone before we arrived in Kinshasa. <br />
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Meeting Julia, our family escort. We both loved her, but she and Gabby created quite the friendship:)</div>
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A traveling parent. My girls and I gushed over the cuteness of her little boy over the months of getting pictures of Maida and the children in her orphanage. He was more adorable in person than even in pictures. It was so exciting to get to meet his mom and know he would have a good home and be loved lots!</div>
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This is St. Annes. We stayed here for eleven days and we loved it. Mosquitoes, cold showers and all. It is an old convent turned into a guest house. Many adoptive families stay here and NGO workers along with traveling nuns, priests and volunteer Drs. and Nurses. We arrived late at night so it wasn't until the following day we were able to go to the orphanage and pick up our new daughter.</div>
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Mine and Maida's bed. It was a full sized bed. Gabby had a twin bed next to us. The mosquito nets are invaluable. Our room would be full with mosquitoes by nightfall. It was a great comfort to crawl into bed and drop those nets and fall asleep. Malaria is the number one killer of children in Congo. They said the mosquitoes were very bad while we were there and just days before we were to leave Maida contracted it:( more about that later.<br />
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The moment I've been waiting for! Seeing my new daughter. She was sleeping soundly, was wet and sweaty but I didn't care. I scooped her up. She didn't know what to think being woken up by a strange white woman. The nannies took her from me to clean her up and put on a clean dress.<br />
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Maida meeting Gabby, Gabby meeting Maida. She (Gabby) was so excited I let her hold her. She was worried I would take the whole coccooning thing too seriously and not let her hold her lol.<br />
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The nannies and some of the children. They all were so much smaller than what we expected and more beautiful.</div>
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Leaving for a new life.</div>
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She didn't cry while we were leaving just very quiet. I knew it would take time for her to trust me and know that her tomorrows were meant for good and not for evil. We have the rest of our lives to convince her of that.</div>
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When we got back to St. Annes I gave her a shower for a thorough cleaning and to look her over from head to toe. She has never had a warm bath or shower so she took it like a champ. I slathered her in lotion and lots of love and put on a clean outfit and met up with the other families and Julia for a night out to celebrate.</div>
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Meeting up with friends with their new families in the foyer of St. Annes.<br />
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We all had much to celebrate. Additionally, Papa J, who works with Julia in Congo and does a great deal for us family's and our children prior to travel and while in Congo celebrated his birthday with us this night too. It was a wonderful night and the food was great. It was Italian believe it or not!</div>
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The end of day one as an ex-orphan.<br />
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While we were in Congo it was easier for me to update thru facebook. All my first thoughts and impressions were journaled there. There is wifi at St. Annes, but electricity comes and goes as does wifi, and we found it easier to upload pictures from my phone and write on facebook than to blog. I will eventually post those journal entries here.<br />
There is SO much to tell you. I am very impressed how other families with blogs convey their thoughts as they have journeyed through the paperwork, the traveling and transistions at home in such poignant yet condensed writings. I am still sorting through the emotions, the practicalities of adding a new member to the family, all the things we saw and felt while in Congo along with moving forward with a big decision we made while in country, I don't have a clue how to give you an organized, meaningful expose of it all but I will do my best.<br />
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Much love and thanks from all of us as you have prayed, supported and followed us along on this journey. I will continue more of the story...so come back soon.<br />
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We have come home with a daughter and a love for a country that is horrible and wonderful. I will update soon and post many pictures. There is much to tell.<br />
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Maida is doing wonderful....<br />
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<br />Our Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16566748731184222334noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-586367079646998593.post-45518577177611290422012-11-08T08:04:00.001-08:002012-11-08T08:04:41.197-08:00The Wait is Over... We Are In Congo<br />
I no longer am wondering who this new daughter of mine is! I have been getting to know her since the 2nd!<br />
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We were scheduled to leave on the 30th but hurricane Sandy prevented us from doing that, so we left the following day and arrived here in Kinshasa the night of November 1st.<br />
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I am very behind in my posts and am sorry for that:( <br />
As the days got closer and closer to leaving I was very overwhelmed mentally and emotionally. We were making a risky decision to travel prior to having Maidas visa issued, then getting word that DGM, the office here who issues the required exit letter would require at least a seven day stay in country. Everything we had planned for at this point, ( a five day stay) was becoming obsolete and we were now having to make new plans and it was all very unsettling as we tried to figure out what was best to do with the new information.<br />
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Several others families were traveling at or around the end of the month so we decided to jump on board and go then too. We decided a two week stay would be as safe as you can predict here for getting the needed papers in order. It is looking like that was a wise decision as our visa has been issued but we are still waiting on our exit letter. Today is Thursday and we are scheduled to leave Monday.<br />
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I was homesick before we even left. I cried about leaving my family and was crying with joy and excitement at the thought of being so close to meeting my new daughter. I as a mess but here I am now sitting next to this new treasure from God!<br />
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We met up with two families at Dulles airport and our in- country co-ordinator. We all were able to fly together all the way to Kinshasa and are staying at the same place which has been wonderful and comforting.<br />
We have been able to watch other children from Maidas orphanage be united with their families. To be sure you know who "we" is, my daughter Gabriella is my traveling companion. Her heart is for the orphan and has been my right arm in this whole process. One day she hopes to be in northern china working with the North Korean orphans along the border. This was a great opportunity for her to experience a third world country and help out in the orphanages.<br />
My husband and I decided to use our in-country co-ordinator as a family escort so he could stay at home with the rest of the family knowing we were in safe and competent hands as long as we were with her.<br />
She and Papa J are invaluable. Both do a great deal of work for this process. She in the states, and he here with the children. While in country he is our driver and translator. We are so thankful for them.<br />
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Our connection here is very very slow and unpredictable but if possible will post more updates and try to upload some photos soon.<br />
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She is wonderful. Smaller than we thought and spunkier than we thought lol!<br />
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<br />Our Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16566748731184222334noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-586367079646998593.post-69636123498411717662012-10-22T08:32:00.000-07:002012-10-22T08:32:23.045-07:00One Day At Time Little One...<br />
Today is embassy day. I have been feeling a wide range of emotions: <br />
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Excitement,<br />
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joy.<br />
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As each day gets closer to traveling, I am understanding more about the losses my little daughter has faced, and know more is to come when I pick her up.<br />
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She has already been through so much. She has lost home and family, and now she is about to loose her country, and the familiar surroundings of the orphanage and the workers whose faces she knows. Whose language she speaks.<br />
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This isn't a post of regret but a post about acknowledging the pain and hardship my daughter has gone through and will continue to go through until she begins to trust in her tomorrows with her new family.<br />
My arrival most likely will bring more pain, more hardship for her. For awhile anyway and that grieves this mothers heart.<br />
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Adoption is a good thing. For families, for children. But it's a hard thing too, because it stems from loss.<br />
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My hope and prayer is that my family, myself and my God will be a healing salve to her broken heart and life. My hope and prayer is that I will be the momma she needs and deserves and we will keep her connected to the culture she came from while at the same time giving her a new country to grow up in. I don't want to take any more from this sweet child. I only want to add to her life. The Congo will always be a part of my daughters life and it will always be a part of this family's future.<br />
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God,<br />
Thank you for this new child of mine. Be with her today as she sits and wonders about this appointment she goes to. An appointment that will change her life for ever. Use this day to usher in blessings from your heart to hers. Keep her for me. Prepare her heart for her new life. Give me the ability to understand her heart and needs. And allow me to be a gracious momma that will always care for her first mom, the one who gave her life. Help me to be a sweet blessing to her all the days of her life. Teach me how to teach her of your love and goodness. Change me so that she will know you through me.<br />
Allow her to receive my love, our family's love. But most importantly your love. Help me to love her as you do.<br />
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Thank you God for Maida. Thank you for creating her and allowing me to share in her life.<br />
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